So, provided that a woman had a great personality and was interested in you, what percentage of women would you disqualify based on looks alone from being a potential mate?
It'd have to be on a case-by-case basis. I can't just say "20%". Also, not every good personality is a personality that makes me get turned on by them. There are good girls, and then there are girls that I feel romantic towards.
It'd have to be on a case-by-case basis. I can't just say "20%". Also, not every good personality is a personality that makes me get turned on by them. There are good girls, and then there are girls that I feel romantic towards.
But, provided that the personality was everything that you were looking for in a mate, would you even care at all what she looked like? Is there a point at which a woman is just to physically ugly for you?
Personally, I think that there would be certain women, who even if they were the most mentally attractive women that I could imagine, would not work out because I would let my lusts get to me with other women. I don't want to settle for less, you know? If I can't imagine being satisfied both mentally and physically by a woman, then I don't want her as a girlfriend. In other words, I want any woman I am involved with to be someone that I could see as my wife. I never want the feeling of, "just until something better comes along."
I guess I bring this up because I am faced with a slight problem. I have a limerent object, but there is another woman who has actively expressed some interest in me. Now, she's cute, but not really cute, and I get along with her quite well, but not in a way that I would see as the way lovers should. So, It could be fun, but really, I'd still be waiting for the limerent object.
DEATHPIGGIE wrote:So then go after the "limerent object".
I want to, but it's a little complicated. I would have to find a time to be alone, as my wooing would need to be done in secret, but no one could know that we were alone.
Actually, this brings up something that I've been thinking a lot about recently.
So, I don't think I have a "type" of woman that I find attractive. In fact, I find most women my age to be attractive. But there are women who I meet who at first I am not attracted to, but who, after getting to know them, I become physically attracted to because I am attracted to their personality. This also works in reverse.
Anyway, I have decided that about 80% of women my age have the potential to sweep me off my feet as long as they have a good personality and show some interest in me. To restate that in a different way, I only find 20% of women to be ugly enough that I could not date them, regardless of their personality.
Does that make sense? Am I just desperate as all hell?
i work in pretty much the same way. by chance i managed to bag me a hot one this time, which is a bonus.
that said, i prefer when walking down the street with a boy that people are thinking 'wow how did he get her' than the other way around. but being with a hot boy has other advantages.