Graduate school in philosophy is outlandishly competitive. Schools have very few spots, and whether or not one gets in depends on many factors besides them being "good enough". I wouldn't take it personally if none of those schools invited me to go there.
When you want to be an academic, there is no other option. Except, perhaps, law school.
A philosophy degree is actually a versatile and useful degree. It makes good writers, good thinkers. This can be applied to just about any field that doesn't absolutely require background training (e.g., scientific research or computer programming). A talented and motivated philosophy student will find herself a job wherever she wants. A burned out and lazy philosophy student will find herself a waitress at age 30.
What's wrong with "that herself ****"? I find it's more useful to just pick one pronoun and stick to it rather than use the annoying he/she terminology. Sometimes I use "him", you know...
I just find it annoying people made such an effort to use "her", instead. The people that started the trend are one intelligence level above those who didn't understand why it was "HIStory".
Of course language evolves and all that, but this was one step that really didn't need to be made.