I play along with the running joke because it's sometimes (though with decreasing frequency) funny.
It's true that I live in San Francisco, enjoy cooking, and on occasion pay attention to my personal appearance. I also listen to music such as Heart, Blondie, Cindi Lauper, and Pat Benatar. I guess I like rock music with a strong female vocalist. Oh, and I also listen to lots of pretentious indie music.
I suppose all those things could give people on the internet the wrong idea, but in reality, I'm quite fond of the ladies.